The instability of a man is a dangerous thing. A man that is unable to maintain a stable lifestyle will have trouble attempting to maintain a stable relationship. He can't fully appreciate what he has or could have have because he is to preoccupied with his search for a better situation. His unsettled ways lead to missed opportunities. A person rarely gets the chance to know him or what he's about. He's never around long enough to establish ANY type of relationship.* To the one that wishes him to stay LET HIM GO-You can't satisfy him. He will not be satisfied until he finds what he is looking for and maybe then you can find peace and comfort with him. Place yourself in a more stable situation and count it a blessing that you were able to experience the positive elements he brought into your life. *Appreciate his desire to better himself. Encourage his appetite for success, but REFUSE to limit yourself. Sometimes he'll NEVER FIND what he's looking for and sometimes he will find it and NEVER look back. In either case, you have to decide what's best for you-FIND WHAT YOU DESERVE!!!!
i believe that i am somewhat dysfunctional. i came to this realization several months after my first semester in college. i began noticing that i would have these random neurotic episodes that ended in either tears, strong feelings of anger, or the occasional bout of uncontrollable laughter (i feel that this is the most dangerous of the three). fortunately, i have yet to reach my neurotic peak( i haven't done any physical harm), although i have come close on several occasions. the good news is that these neurotic episodes appear to be stress related; however, the bad news is that 80% of the time, i am under stress.
i've tried to repress my neurotic tendancies. the plan was to redirect my emotions. actually, i only redirected my attention. i put myself and my issues aside and focused on things that weren't related to me or my issues. my strategy momentarily distracted my attentions but intensified my episodes. it was during these episodes that i came close to my neurotic peak.
my new plan is to deal with my issues directly. this has proven to be difficult because i don't really want to deal with my issues. i suspect that i may be dysfuncitonal, and i'm afraid that dealing with my issues directly will only prove my theory. however, if dealing with my issues instead of running away will reduce stress and ultimately end my neurotic episodes, then i'm willing to acknowledge my dysfunctionality (is that a word?). wish me luck!!
