my question:
if a woman initiates sex shortly after meeting, why is she considered a ho? why can't she be viewed as someone who knows what she wants out of life, and isn't afraid to execute her plan?
a male coworker and i were conversating about an affair he had with another coworker. in his discussion, he mentioned that she was 'scandalous' because she elected to have sex with him 3 days after their affair began.
i don't know about other females, but this one is not on a daily crusade to find her soulmate.
i don't consider myself to be ho-ish, but my initial encounters do not revolve around unrealistic fantasies. call me shallow, but my initial attraction is purely physical. every guy i meet will not qualify as a future boyfriend/husband, so i don't see the point in pegging or treating each guy i meet as 'the one.' not saying that i go around having random sex, but i have chosen to follow through on a couple of physical endeavors. guys do it ALL the time, so why can't i indulge myself every now and again?