one person cannot define your happiness, but they do possess the ability to alter the way you feel. i was in love with a saggitarius, and everything about him reminded me of the type of man i wanted in my life. the reasons behind my attraction were purely selfish. the way i felt about him was related to the way i felt around him. it was easier to be around him and a hell of a lot less stressful. i could be me and not have to worry about being judged or ridiculed. we had an understanding. even though we don't see or talk to each other like we used to, he' s still a very important part of my life. whenever i'm upset or really need to sit down and talk to someone, he's the first person i think about.